would not have dated such a woman, and his infatuation and passion would not have turned into love if he had not seen that this woman was capable of changing. That she is capable of being a lady when circumstances require it. That she's getting better.

In addition, the heroine of Julia Roberts turned out to be quite modest and honest, open and kind at heart, which is rarely seen among real moths. Therefore, if anger lives in you and men are just a bag of money for you, then it’s worth doing my trick. Enter the mind of your ideal man and find something in yourself that is worth changing. And then mentally marry yourself.

You can even play out a toy wedding and have fun at home with your friends. Look at yourself through the eyes of the groom.

How did I marry my boyfriend? I'll tell you now.

Even though we were already known as a married couple among our friends, I still felt insecure.

How was this expressed?

He was still my teacher. I remained in the role of a little guy next to the master. I had already stopped greedily looking into his mouth, catching every word like diamonds, I had reached a level where I could do something myself, I learned to bring income to our common company at four million rubles a month, but I still received lyulei, like an obstinate subordinate, constantly demanding something.

Then, in two thousand and sixteen, it seemed to me that for my merits at work, I could demand to register our marriage.

Where is the logic? There is no logic. It's funny, but at the time everything seemed very reasonable. I was like a fighter. I worked twenty-four to seven, trying to curry favor with the boss, instead of devoting time to relationships, loving him, understanding him, communicating and leading him to the decision to get married.

He is one of those who, having been burned once, does not want a second time. You know, like Mr. Big from the movie Sex and the City. My man didn’t want his second wife to go crazy after the wedding, so that she would go crazy with happiness that she had finally saddled the zealous stallion.

With tears in my eyes, I assured that I would not become like that. Do you know what my mistake was? I didn’t marry myself then.

I couldn’t imagine that I have a young wife who works hard for my subordinates, then returns home tired and angry, doesn’t want to have sex, or does it without a soul. Doesn't cum. Forgive me for my directness, but it seems to me that we have already become close friends here and have thrown away all boundaries of decency. Such a wife is constantly tense, rarely and poorly cooks due to lack of time, does not play sports and has neglected herself a little, dresses robotically, without excitement or zest, constantly growls at her employees like a Cerberus, and then complains to me about everyone. Sometimes he throws hysterics and asks for understanding.

You know, Vladislav then proposed to me and married me. But after three months we separated. He forced himself to reward the employee, not his woman. The roles are mixed up. After all, it was wise to give a bonus to a subordinate and leave. And calm the wife down, smooth her, revive her femininity and wait until she loves herself. And then propose to your wife.

Then the breakup would not have happened. Because we were both on edge. Perhaps it would take years of rest to consciously decide on marriage. We forced events and forcibly signed.

And in our case, this still played into my hands (later I’ll tell you what I’m talking about), but it brought harm to many others in the same situation; they separated in the first three years of marriage.

People should become better for their sweethearts, meaning that they are doing it for themselves.

And in the end, look at this: if you have become better, others will begin to look at you, not just your man, they will begin to envy him, many would like such a wife.

And if, after ten years of marriage, nurturing yourself, improving, you suddenly find yourself alone, divorced or widowed, then other men will stand in line and you will choose the best of them.

You definitely won't be left alone.

It’s even better if the divorced husband remains a friend and praises you to his friends.

Then Brad Pitt himself may choose you as his wife, or the one you have dreamed of since childhood, thinking it was unrealistic.

When I hire a new employee, I always find out from his former employers what kind of results this guy brought to them. And I take it only if there is a confirmed significant result.

Likewise, people should choose their spouses.

If he throws mud at his ex, he will most likely do the same after you break up.

If he praises her, but is no longer in love, then firstly, the same will happen in your attitude. Secondly, apparently she was a good woman.

— How did she influence you?

— Well, I was just a builder. And she believed in me. And now I have a construction company.

— Excellent result.

If he had told this on her social network (although someone would say “this is ridiculous”), then the poor girl would no longer be like that, she immediately began to be in demand, and being selective about this issue, she married the director at least, and maybe a major investor, young and sexy, faithful and doting on her.

Married girls, now ask your boyfriend a question: “How did I help you?” If you know the answer, but he is silent, then something is wrong. Either you crossed out all your achievements with