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Нейротипичный – не страдающий расстройствами аутистического спектра.

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В русском варианте – сказка о маленькой девочке и трех медведях. Главная героиня заблудилась в лесу и случайно нашла домик, в котором было несколько предметов, отличавшихся друг от друга по определенным свойствам. Из них девочка выбрала для себя наиболее подходящие. Также существует понятие «зона Златовласки», обозначающее такое космическое пространство, в котором находятся планеты, по свойствам своей поверхности схожие с Землей и теоретически способные стать местом для зарождения жизни.

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См. главу 7.

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См. главу 2.

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George E. Vaillant, Charles C. McArthur, and Arlie Bock, “Grant Study of Adult Development, 1938–2000,” Harvard Dataverse, 2010, doi.org/10.7910/DVN/48WRX9.

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Viktor E. Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning: An Introduction to Logotherapy (Boston: Beacon Press, 1962).

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E. E. Smith, The Power of Meaning: Crafting a Life That Matters (New York: Crown, 2017).

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См. главу 4.