28. Roberts, Brent W., and Richard W. Robins. Broad dispositions: The intersection of personality and major life goals. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2000, vol. 26, pp. 1284–1296.

29. Simpson, Jeffry, William Rholes, and Julia Nelligan. Support seeking and support giving within couples in an anxiety provoking situation: The role of attachment styles. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1992, vol. 62, pp. 434–446.

30. Twenge, Jean. The age of anxiety? Birth cohort change in anxiety and neuroticism. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2000, vol. 79, pp. 1007–1021.

31. Uchino, Bert, John Cacioppo, and Janice Kiecolt-Glaser. The relation ship between social support and psychological processes. Psycho- logical Bulletin, 1996, vol. 119, pp. 488–531.

32. Yalom, Marilyn. A History of the Wife. HarperCollins, 2001.

Куда ушла моя любовь? Разобщение

1. Gottman, John. What Predicts Divorce? Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, 1994.

2. Huston, Ted, John Caughlin, Renate Houts, Shanna Smith, and Laura George. The connubial crucible: Newlywed years as predictors of marital delight, distress and divorce. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2001, vol. 80, pp. 237–252.

3. LeDoux, Joseph. The Emotional Brain: The mysterious underpinnings of emotional life. Simon and Schuster, 1996.

4. Panksepp, Jaak. Affective Neuroscience: The foundations of human and animal emotions. Oxford University Press, 1998.

Часть вторая. Семь исцеляющих диалогов

Диалог 2. Найти больную мозоль

1. Davila, Joanne, Dorli Burge, and Constance Hammen. Does attach ment style change? Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1997, vol. 73, pp. 826–838.

2. LeDoux, Joseph. The Emotional Brain: The mysterious underpinnings of emotional life. Simon and Schuster, 1996.

Диалог 4. Обними меня крепче: открыться, чтобы стать ближе

1. Carter, Sue. Neuroendocrine perspectives on social attachment and love. Psychoneuroendocrinology, 1998, vol. 23, pp. 779–818.

2. di Pelligrino, Guiseppe, Luciano Faduga, L. Leonardo Fogassi, Vittorio Gallese, and Giacomo Rizzolatti. Understanding motor events: A neurophysiological study. Experimental Brain Research, 1992, vol. 91, pp. 176–180.

3. Gallese, Vittorio. The shared manifold hypothesis: From mirror neurons to empathy. Journal of Consciousness Studies, 2001, vol. 8, pp. 33–50.

4. Insel, Thomas. A neurological basis of social attachment. American Journal of Psychiatry, 1997, vol. 154, pp. 725–735.

5. Johnson, Sue, and Leslie Greenberg. Relating process to outcome in marital therapy. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 1988, vol. 14, pp. 175–183.

6. Kosfeld, Michael, Marcus Heinrichs, Paul Zak, Urs Fischbacher, and Ernst Fehr. Oxytocin increases trust in humans. Nature, 2005, vol. 435, pp. 673–676.

7. Stern, Daniel. The Present Moment in Psychotherapy and Everyday Life. Norton, 2004.

8. Uvnas-Moberg, Kerstin. Oxytocin may mediate the benefits of positive social interaction and emotions. Psychoneuroendocrinology, 1998, vol. 23, pp. 819–835.

9. Varela, Francisco, Jean-Phillippe Lachaux, Eugenio Rodriguez, and Jacques Martinerie. The Brainweb: Phase synchronization and large-scale integration. Nature Reviews Neuroscience, 2001, vol. 2, pp. 229–239.

Диалог 5. Простить обиды

1. Herman, Judith. Trauma and Recovery. Basic Books, 1992.

2. Simpson, Jeffry, and William Rholes. Stress and secure base relation ships in adulthood. In Attachment Processes in Adulthood, Kim Bartholomew and Dan Perlman (editors), Jessica Kingley Pub lisher, 1994, pp. 181–204.

Диалог 6. Любить и прикасаться, чтобы стать ближе

1. Davis, Deborah, Phillip Shaver, and Michael Vernon. Attachment style and subjective motivations for sex. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2004, vol. 30, pp. 1076–1090.

2. Field, Tiffany. Touch. MIT Press, 2003.

3. Gillath, Omri, and Dory Schachner. How do sexuality and attach ment interrelate? In Dynamics of Romantic Love: Attachment, caregiving and sex, Mario Mikulincer and Gail Goodman (editors), Guilford Press, 2006, pp. 337–355.

4. Harlow, Harry. Learning to Love. Jason Aronson, 1978.

5. Hazan, Cindy, D. Zeifman, and K. Middleton. Adult romantic attachment, affection and sex. Paper presented at the International Conference on Personal Relationships, Groningen, Netherlands, 1994.

6. McCarthy, Barry, and Emily McCarthy. Rekindling Desire. Brunner/Routledge, 2003.

7. Michael, Robert, John Gagnon, Edward Laumann, and Gina Kolata. Sex in America: A definitive survey. Little, Brown and Company, 1995.

8. Montagu, Ashley. Touching. Harper and Row, 1978.

9. Simpson, Jeffry, and S. Gangestad. Individual differences in sociosexu ality: Evidence for convergent and discriminant validity. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1991, vol. 60, pp. 870–883.

10. Stern, Daniel. The Present Moment in Psychotherapy and Everyday Life. Norton, 2004.

Диалог 7. Поддерживать огонь любви

1. Johnson, Susan, and Leslie Greenberg. The differential effects of experiential and problem solving interventions in resolving marital conflict. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 1985, vol. 53, pp. 175–184.

2. Main, Mary. Metacognitive knowledge, metacognitive monitoring and singular (coherent) vs. multiple (incoherent) models of attach ment. In Attachment Across the Life Cycle, Colin Murray Parkes, Joan Stevenson-Hinde, and Peter Marris (editors), Routledge, 1991, pp. 127–159.

3. Schor, Juliet. The Overworked American. Basic Books, 1992.

Часть третья. Сила, преображающая мир

Любовь исцеляющая

1. Fraley, Chris, David Fazzari, George Bonanno, and Sharon Dekel. Attachment and psychological adaptation in high exposure survivors of the September 11th attack on the World Trade Center. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2006, vol. 32, pp. 538–551.

2. Johnson, Susan. Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy with Trauma Survivors: Strengthening attachment bonds. Guilford Press, 2002.

3. Matsakis, Aphrodite. Trust After Trauma: A guide to relationships for survivors and those who love them. New Harbinger Press, 1997.

4. Matsakis, Aphrodite. In Harm’s Way: Help for the wives of military men, police, EMTs and Firefighters. New Harbinger Press, 2005.

5. Resnick, Heidi, Dean Kilpatrick, Bonnie Dansky, Benjamin Saunders, and Connie Best. Prevalence of civilian trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder in a representative national sample of women. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 1993, vol. 61, pp. 984–991.